Here's what you should be keeping in mind if you're thinking of losing your vibrator virginity:
Material
Now, I know it's really tempting to go for just a straight, hard plastic vibe. They're inexpensive, sometimes they have multiple settings, or come in cute colors/patterns. They can also be some of the loudest, which isn't exactly going to put you at ease for that first play date. To anyone who asks, I urge them to start off with something jelly or soft to the touch for their first vibe. The more people I meet who hated their first vibrator, the more I'm hearing that they started with something cheap and hard. I'm not saying avoid plastic like the plague (some people are really happy with plastic), but I am saying that there are a lot of people that wish they had bought something else the first time.
Okay, you've found something jelly. Now, have a look at the packaging. Unfortunately, there is no law saying they have to list on the packaging what goes into that jelly outer layer. This can make a shopper leery (and rightfully so), but thankfully the companies that make vibrators are aware of that, and will mark anything deemed body safe as a selling feature. Look for anything with the Safe and Pure logo on it, or the words "Phthalate Free". As a lot of jelly vibrators are made of latex, if you have a latex allergy, go with silicone. Silicone is also viewed as a great selling feature, so if it doesn't say on the box in plain text that it's silicone, you can be sure to find the information stamped on there somewhere as a logo. Something called Sil-a-Gel is getting increasingly popular as well, which is a reformulated version of silicone, and is just as body-safe as regular silicone.
The size and shape you pick out is ultimately up to you, but the vast majority of first time vibrator shoppers prefer to go with something simple. That means staying away from any dual stimulators, or any other vibes whose purpose escapes you. Those vibes can be great once you've done some self-exploration and found out what kind of stimulation works best for you. Remember, each individual's preferences aren't so black and white as "Place (A) in (B)", so your well-meaning friend's toy suggestion may not be what works for you.
If you start with something insertable that's not overly thick (approx 1.5" wide or less), you will have more room to navigate and explore in different ways. You'll be able to try external stimulation only, internal thrusting, and finding your g-spot with the right angling. Length doesn't make a big difference unless you are using something too small for insertion, like a bullet vibe.
My Recommendations
First Time Softees are a great starter vibrator. They're small, easy to use, jelly, and are available in straight or curved g-spot styles. Pictured at the left is the First Time Softee Teaser (available at Smitten, $18.95).
Climax Gems are the next most popular beginner-friendly vibrator. They come in a wide variety of sizes, shapes, and colors, and are waterproof. Below are the Climax Gems Margarita Bubbly, Wisteria Waves, and Fuchsia Phallus (Smitten, $24.95 each).
Lastly, and definitely not least, is the Liv by Lelo (Smitten, $117.95). Where do I begin? Aside from it being the perfect size and shape for someone just starting out, this is one for those who like to start with an investment purchase that offers the utmost in quality. Lelo offers a full year of warranty for defects, and an impressive 10 year guarantee, which provides half of what you paid towards the purchase of new one if this one flakes. 100% medical grade silicone, rechargeable, and five settings, it's hard to go wrong with the Liv.
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